by Ben Popkin
I was a wrestler. I cut weight, worked out excessively, and put up with people’s complaints. First of all, let me tell you what a normal day is like for a wrestler. 5:30 am, I woke up and got dressed in darkness. I went for a run in the morning, sat through class, went to practice after school, ran or biked after practice, and sat in the cold pool in the training room. It was 6:30 pm before I began the walk back to my car. That’s right. A wrestler spends more time at school than his home (we call it our vacation home). In the process of killing our bodies and strengthening our minds, the senior wrestlers have been left with unforgettable memories.
I can remember when I first began wrestling. When I was in seventh grade, I was a basketball player. I did seven pull-ups in P.E., and Coach Glasser said to me, “You’re going to be a pretty good wrestler.” “I’m a basketball player,” I said cheerfully and walked merrily away. It just so happened that we were playing basketball in P.E. that day. I had the ball, and went in for an open layup. I missed. “Yeah,” Coach Glasser said, “you’re going to wrestle.” He was right.
The Lovett wrestling team practices together from the first time we wrestle, to the last. This means that the middle school practices are more or less the same as the varsity practices. This gives the middle school an advantage over the competition.
“I remember wrestling Stuart,” says Robert Satcher, “I still have the lead in victories. Three to two.”
While Satcher says he is winning the count, Childs says that it is tied up.
“One of those wins was at UTC (wrestling camp) and the ref wasn’t watching when I pinned Bob earlier in the match,” argues Childs. The two have since separated from each other in size, and it looks like this heated rivalry might never be resolved.
The majority of our middle school years were filled with large victories, and a lot of us had undefeated seasons in our eighth grade year. Because of this, many of us felt unbeatable going into high school.
High school was a shock for a lot of the Lovett wrestlers. We went from running through the competition to losing matches. My first loss of freshman year came in our first weekend tournament, the 400 North Duals. I got rocked in this match, and I mean killed. I was taken down and put on my back multiple times. My feeble attempt to take my opponent down ended in my face on the mat. I was going to have to get better if I was going to survive high school wrestling.
The older you get, the harder wrestling practice becomes. You spend less time trying to figure out moves and more time drilling them. My practice partner for 6 years was Matthew Hines, one of the hardest workers in the wrestling room. He was always there to tell me when I wasn’t working hard enough. Practices were long and hard, and many times we would collapse outside after practice was over. But we got better as a team and individually, and that was important.
Our team learned leadership from seniors such as Robert Thrasher, Hunter Dunlap, and Adam Domanico. This year’s senior class was strong in talent and big in heart.
This year, the wrestling team made it to the state dual finals for the first time in six years. It came down to the wire with Henry County, the team everyone loves to hate. It had been a heated dual with unsportsmanlike penalties on both sides. Lovett was up by only a few points when the last two matches came up. Freshman Patrick Emerson came up with a huge win at 160. In this match, Patrick forced his opponent to DQ himself with four unsportsmanlike penalties. This clenched the victory over Henry County. Our hearts filled with emotion and our lungs filled with air, we yelped with joy as the Henry County wrestlers threw things and swore. It was one of the happiest nights of our life. People cried, we hugged, and sang. Our team had made the state finals.
“I couldn’t believe it,” said Burton Dunlap, “we were in the finals.”
For two special seniors, there was another extremely important win. Both Matthew Hines and Daniel Domanico both won individual state titles their junior year.
“I did the only thing I could think of after I won,” said Matthew. He was referring to his victory roar (photographed by P. McIntyre).
With all of these great wins, there are still people who wonder why we wrestle. A few questions we hear again and again: Why don’t you just go up a weight class? Why don’t you smile more? Why don’t you just quit? These questions don’t help a wrestler during the season.
But I will proceed to answer each of the questions so that they will never be asked again. The reason we don’t go up a weight class is because we want to be stronger than the competition. “But if you go up a weight class you’ll have more energy and be better.” No we won’t. If we go up a weight class, we’ll get beaten by people who cut weight. We do smile when it is appropriate. If someone says something really funny or something good happens, we will smile. Because we aren’t in a constant state joy people label us as depressed. And finally, I’ll tell you why we don’t just quit. Wrestling has taught us to persevere through the hard times. Real wrestlers don’t quit things because they can’t eat French Fries. We have too much commitment to the sport and to our team mates to quit. I understand that these answers will not satisfy many people, but I must tell those people to quit with the questions.
This year, there were 8 senior starters on the wrestling team. This includes Austin Davis, Matt Hines, Robert Satcher, Daniel Domanico, Burton Dunlap, Stuart Childs, Mack Emerson, and myself. This means that over half of the starters on the wrestling team will be graduating.
What does this mean for the future of Lovett wrestling? Will the team be able to bounce back from this hit? History has shown that no matter how many starters are lost, the wrestling team will always be able to bounce back. Rich Niehaus, a sophomore, took second at the state tournament. This is quite a feat for an underclassman, and Rich shows great promise for the future along with other returning starters Ricky Nunez, Patrick Emerson, Zack Wolfe, and Hunter Rich.
As I leave this wrestling chapter of my life behind in high school, I am left with lessons and memories. It has been a journey, but it has finally ended and I am going to move on into my life. Like most of the senior wrestlers, I will never again be required to weigh a certain weight by a certain time, and I won’t step into the center of the mat for a match ever again. It’s been hard, but it was worth it.

